Firstly you will notice that unlike other Dommes I do not display my telephone number so you will have had to contactMe by email. Although you should express your interests please do not expect me to spell out every moment as I view this as an attempt to gain ‘wank material’ and will be offended. When you enter into Domination you need to be able to trust your Dominant, have a connection with them and be able to be frank and open. You know what you crave and I know how to deliver it. I won’t suffer fools who seem to need to be ego stroked constantly and have no need to have to ‘turn you on’ to gain your business.
I like to be referred to as Mistress or Ma’am and not Lady, Miss, Boss, Goddess or other. Although I am not your average Domme I do appreciate the show of respect by using capitalisation when refering to Me – Mistress, You etc and little letters when using words about yourself – i, myself, slave etc.
When I have decided that you are worth bothering with and you meet my necessary credentials and can be available at a time to suit us both you will be offered an appointment.
To book this appointment you will have to pay a deposit by paypal or bank transfer. I have several ways to protect you from ‘paperwork trails’. At this stage I will need your mobile number for text communication only – I will not ring you and will respect if you need any communication to be ‘office hours’ ”evenings’ ‘on the day after 8am’ as there is no thrill element for Me by causing problems for you at work or home. If you can not do this then you will be instructed to search elsewhere.
On the day you will confirm by text and make your way to the address given where you will enter inside a private doorway so there is no waiting outside. Standing with your head bowed you will be greeted by Me. Any gift you bring should be in a carrier bag and brought in discretely. I shall then instruct you in whatever way I decide and take you to the dungeon where you will be instructed to strip, place any remaining tribute in an envelope on the table and present yourself to me, naked and ready for inspection.
At this point I expect you to be terrified and tense and I know how to put you at ease and test your responses to sensations or pain without hurting you. This will help me to gauge your session correctly. I will inform you of safe words and how to respond to questions and from that moment on you will be in my control and under no disillusion that is the case.
I will question you, gather information which will be used in a playful way. When I am confident that you are familiar enough with the situation I will place a hood or blindfold on you if thats what is called for.
The fantasy will then unfold and although I do not offer ‘scripted roleplay’ I will have an idea from our communication what I will do to you. If you have 10 fantasies then don’t expect them all to happen in 1 hour. Be realistic and if there is something that you are DESPERATE for then ensure you communicate that with me.
Many of my sessions involve therapy of some kind for the slave and the dungeon is a safe secure place to explore feelings and thoughts whilst being reassured about your emotion,. feelings, life and how to seperate play from reality. I always offer after care. A good session will leave you feeling elated, high, complete and as with any high in life from sex, drugs or alcohol there is a natural low to balance things out. Its normal to feel odd emotions a day or two afterwards and as a caring and compassionate Dominatrix I will be there to guide you.
WHAT WONT HAPPEN IN THE SESSION.
- Anything you have stated as a hard limit.
- Interaction with a second slave, chemicals or breathplay unless previously agreed.
- Touching Me or My body in any way.
- Me wearing clothing of your choice. I wear very sexy outfits with high heels, exposed cleavage and very short skirts with a corset and stockings. I will not dress up as a barbie doll or just wear underwear for you.
- ‘Pussy’ worship, breast worship, watersports, or scat.
- Sexual intercourse.
I like to hear bodily responses, sighs, moans, groans, whimpers, happy noises. I won’t tolerate screaming or shouting.
Basic rules in a nutshell…..
Dont expect me to fall for any rubbish to aid your sexual excitement at the end of a keyboard.
Expect Me to have fun and you to be involved in that.
Be realistic about what you want and be honest about it.
Respect Me, My privacy and integrity as I will respect yours.
Think of Me as the best thing that could occuur in your life and not a prostitute to do your bidding.
After the session you will dress, there will be a short after chat and the opportunity for you to shower. What I do expect is a thank you text or email just out of courtesy. If I have taken photos I will forward them to you and any I use of the blog pages will not disclose you in any way (I even edit birthmarks and tattoos to maintain annonimity in what can be the age of technology.)