Many newbies have read these blog pages and been filled with terror that I will be far too severe for them. There is no need to worry – I will take you as far as you can go comfortably. I don’t judge or laugh or consider you pathetic for not having the stamina and pain thresh-hold of a long term slave.

Play need to begin gradually and be built upon over time.  When I agree a session I want to know what things in the blog pages have had your mind racing with thoughts of ‘that should be me’ and those that just feel wrong.

Generally I put together a taster session for the first meeting where you will be introduced to a few different aspects of play. I test your ability to accept pain and issue you with a set of words that will allow you to communicate effectively as a slave.

After many years as a Dominatrix I have the ability to read your body language and understand where you are at and act upon it. Many of the feedback reports mention My ability to judge a slaves limits and back of just as he is on the verge of using the safe word.

Tell Me what is in your head – I want to know. Nothing will shock Me I can assure you. Even though you are paying for My time I will not play act to a script – all sessions unfold naturally and your ‘list of likes and dislikes’ simply allows Me to make judgement calls easier that to go in blind. If you ask for 5 things to happen in session maybe 3 of them will and 2 things that you weren’t expecting but find that you enjoy will occur along the way.

Pain is a strange thing. No-one should really like pain as it is the bodies way of protecting itself from harm. Its a lucky person that can transform the feelings and emotions that pain sensors create into those of pleasure. There are many different types and levels of pain. Someone squeezing your penis a little firmly with a leather gloved hand could be seen as pain but to experience it could be heavenly. Keep your mind open.